Joan Joyce (Schiavon) Huesca
1928 - 1987
In her own words (Part Five)
On June 24, 1987, a couple of months before she
died of lung cancer, my mother, Joan Joyce (Schiavon) Huesca began writing the
story of her life. Earlier, she described her earliest
memories of life with her parents until the Great Depression cost her father
his job and she had to move in with her grandmother, Mary Jane (Gaffney)
McGinnis and Mary Jane's sister, Elizabeth "Lyle" Gaffney and life at the family cottage at Big Blue Lake, Michigan.
In this excerpt from her book, Joan Joyce Schiavon Huesca: an Autobiography,
she recalls her first days at school, her paternal grandmother, Emanuella
Sannella, and lastly, her beloved father, Ralph Schiavon:
"Grandma [Mary Jane McGinnis] and Aunt Lyle
[Elizabeth Gaffney] didn't want me to go to Kindergarten, as they wanted me to
stay home with them, and that was just fine with me. I was so happy there
in that home of love, they petted and praised me all the time, and I loved
every minute of it!
Emmanuella (Sannella) Schiavon, Chicago, Illinois |
"My Grandmother Emanuella Schiavone had come
to live at my parent's home. I remember that my parents took a trip to
Cuba during these years, and when they returned, they decided that I should
return home to live. My Father had started his own business as a Tax
Consultant, and was beginning to prosper once again, though we were far from
being rich in those days. I don't really remember much about my Grandma
Schiavone at that time, except for one visit to my parents' home while she was
there. She was in the kitchen frying up what my Father called
"ladyfingers," made of mashed potatoes rolled up, with parsley and
garlic flavored. I remember they tasted very good. Grandma couldn't
speak any English, so we really couldn't communicate very well, for I couldn't
speak Italian, either.
"Let me take the time now, to tell you about
my Father. For all of my life, he has been a sort of hero to me, his
early years were very humble. He was born in a small village called San Sossio**,
in Italy, just south of Rome, and north of Naples. Through the years,
Daddy would tell us a few stories about his background and his youth, and these
I'll try to relate to you now.
"Daddy told us that there were records in the
village church tracing his family back to the time of the early Romans.
But, he didn't seem to know where his Father, Emanuel Schiavone***,
had originated from. Grandpa turned up in San Sossio one day, and must
have been a dashing figure in his day, dressed in a long black flowing cape
with a gold earring in one ear! He courted my Grandmother, who was
Emanuella Sannella, and married her, and they lived their first years of
marriage in San Sossio. My Uncle Pat (Pasquale) was born, then my Father,
and after his birth, since he was such a big baby, my Grandmother wasn't able
to care for him, so he was sent to live with some maiden ladies, who sort of
adopted him for the first few years of his life. They were apparently
very well to do, and my Father grew healthy and well fed. He used to tell
us, he especially loved goat's milk, and would go right up to the goat, for a
fresh drink of it! He even used to ride on the goat's back, until he got
too big for that, and transferred to a donkey!
Note the submarine name, "USS South Carolina" inscribed in Ralph Schiavon's sailor's hat. |
"Through the years, my Father prospered, and
was quite well to do, but he never forgot his humble beginnings, and he had a
devotion to his family, and his Mother and brothers and sisters, throughout
their lifetimes...My Father adored his Mother, and his devotion to her was
inspirational. Each year of his life, until her death, he would make two
trips all the way from Chicago to Boston (one trip, always for Mother's Day),
to spend with her."
- Joan Huesca
* Jane and Buddy were Benita Jane and Phillip McCormick, Jr. Their parents were Phillip and Benita (McGinnis) McCormick, and Benita was the oldest child of Thomas and Mary Jane McGinnis.
** For reasons of accuracy, I have changed my mother's phonetic spelling of my grandfather's birthplace from "San Saucio" to the official spelling of the village, namely, "San Sossio (Baronia)." The village is located in the province of Avellino, Italy.
*** My mother, who never met her grandfather, believed his name to be Emmanuel Schiavone. In fact, his name was Vito Isidoro Schiavone, and he was known as Vito.
*** My mother, who never met her grandfather, believed his name to be Emmanuel Schiavone. In fact, his name was Vito Isidoro Schiavone, and he was known as Vito.
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